The 7th house (where the sun visits every year) draws your attention to the relationship business, marriage and the need for someone special in your life. If you look at a map and there are planets in the 7th (at birth), they will be "activated" at least once a month (by the moon) and once a year by the sun together with other visitors of the 7th in the Year and in your life. Your birth chart provides information about how you work with others and their relationships with you = relationships. Complaints and personal friendships (your best friend) are also shown here. What you think that you lack in yourself, you will attract to others and what you loathe in others is a reflection of what you hate in yourself!
To be the home of attraction You "draw" to yourself what and who you need to grow and develop. If you understand all the planets within or aspects of the 7th, you will understand what you NEED (which is different from what you want). Remember that this position does not indicate an actual person, but it does indicate the "type" of the person who is "drawn" into your life, or the type of person you are attracted to ...
It shows grandparents and anyone who acts on your behalf (agents, etc.). To be the home of Open enemies (and who is our greatest enemy?) refer to this house if you feel like you are being "persecuted" in any way ... the 7th house is multi-faceted because it is the house of equality, if any a relationship, marriage or union is not "equal", then failure will surely follow. The challenge of how two people can make a relationship (marriage) work is perhaps the greatest challenge we all have to face. It is not to be taken lightly. Speaking of marriage, not everyone enters the marriage bed "Love in his or her eyes". In no case is there often a hidden agenda that works under the surface. Show fire signs and impulsiveness in the formation of partnerships. Earth signs take their time. Air signs need communication. Watermarks need more relationships than most thinkers "Being with someone is better than being alone ..." This information is only offered as a guideline, since many, many dynamics are at work when two people meet in person (another key word for this house).
Man is perhaps the most vulnerable of all when it comes to relationships. Many always dress in the same circumstances, never really learn anything, it is always something that happens to them or the guilt of the other person or even accuses fate. ..
The 7th house actually asks you to look at your 1st because they are mutually mirrored.
Look for planets in this house that tell you what you need or what to expect in a partnership / relationship / close friendship. Example: The sun in the 7th could mean looking for a father figure! The moon could mean you are looking for a mother figure and so on. "I have Uranus here - what does that say about what I need?" Write me an email with your suggestions LOL. Sometimes the actual sign or the element of the sign at the top gives you an indication of what you need from a partner or what you need to express externally.
As a house of 'equilibrium' we often look in 'another' for that part of our 'self' that has to be 'whole' (whether this is easy to achieve is another matter) to remind us that it is This house is just about identifying yourself through interacting with others on a personal level (remember the next time you choose one 'Struggle' with another because you really "fight" with yourself!) Examine this house to see if it is moving template. "If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always have." As I said, the 7th house shows patterns, and if you don't learn from the experiences of that house, you are doomed to repeat them until you do.
Remember that 'patterns' are set in motion if the same thing happens to you a third time and they are difficult to break.